Someone sent me this message this morning. Please, ma, advise me because I honestly don’t know what to do.

First, take a deep breath. It is completely understandable that you are terrified, shaking, and confused right now, but you need to prioritize your health and safety above everything else.
Here is the exact step-by-step approach you should take:1. Go for a confidential HIV test immediately
Do this before confronting him. You need clear factual information about your own health status first so you know what you are dealing with. HIV testing is quick, routine, and strictly confidential at clinics and hospitals. Remember: a person can have HIV for years without showing any outward symptoms, which explains why your husband seems completely normal right now.
2. Document the evidence quietly
Before you speak to him, take a clear photo or screenshot of the message on his phone (including the phone number and date) and send it to your own phone or save it securely. If he panics during a confrontation, he may delete the message and deny everything.

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