«Good morning ma. Please I need your advice. I don’t know who else to talk to.
I am married and I have been with my husband for some years now. Some years ago, I found out that he was seeing another woman. When I confronted him, he told me it was over and begged me to forgive him.
I decided to forgive him because I didn’t want to destroy my home.
But recently, I was using his phone and I saw a message from the same woman.
She told him that she had gone for an HIV test and the result came back positive.
Ma, I don’t even know what happened to me when I read that message. My hands were shaking.
The first thing that came to my mind was my husband. I started asking myself if they have been together again. If he has it, what about me?
I have not asked him yet because I am scared. I don’t know whether to confront him first or go and do a test quietly.
What is confusing me is that he has been acting normal. Nothing looks different about him.
Ma, please what should I do? Should I tell him I saw the message? Should I go and test myself first?
I am honestly scared and confused. I don’t even know how to behave around him right now.
Please ma, advise me.»
Please, let’s advise her without insulting her
Someone sent me this message this morning. Please, ma, advise me because I honestly don’t know what to do.
